avoidance

When Shame Comes into the Room

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Shame is a ubiquitous feeling that impacts all of us, is highly prevalent in therapy work, and yet little was known or discussed about it until a few decades ago.…

When Low Self-Esteem Enters the Room

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This blog post explores what happens when a client’s low self-esteem activates our own as therapists, from the perspective of countertransference and psychodynamic theory. It also features the important role…

Working with Emptiness in the Consulting Room

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If you’re interested in this topic and want to find out more, you might like to see the on-demand CPD videos we have on this same subject. You can see…